Alright.. I really don't know how to start, but it's about my opinion of a close contact relation between a couple.. Its just too hard to put it verbally... Words can speak clearer sometimes..

Yes it's regarding intimacy.. This word is so sensitive in a really bad shape people could think of only bad things like, immoral, unhealthy exposures, underage sexual activities, abuse of love and body, disrespect for religion, and many related excuses.. Intimacy is not merely about Sex! People please don't abuse it! Do unmarried couples really have no rights to get intimate, or have we forgotten the need and reason for intimacy?

Why must we wait till marriage to get intimate? Why can't we get so close before marriage? Why do we get intimate? What is the reason we get so close? What is intimacy? Parents and children argue endlessly and somehow aimlessly over this misleading truth and fiction of love and exposure. Now, will you get intimate with somebody you don't love? Or will you want it, but refused because you aren't married? So, what is marriage? After so much procession, it's only a piece of certificate to verify and recognize a legal couple who finally has the rights to live and be together in a nation. While marriage is possible, a divorce could also be so.. Love is still the drive between them.. So many girls were forced to marry in the past, but were they the least happy to have sex with their stranger husband? Was that considered moral? Think again...

To be true, we get intimate because we love.. Feel only happy to give your lover a intimacy feast, because that will give one another a very strong sense of love and security, and faith in a better relationship. But that doesn't mean sex is necessary. Never abuse a love with forced sex. Love a person, show a respect. If you ever feel bad or upset after the event, talk to your lover and tell him/her how you feel about that blessing moment. Because talking about your intimate time with him/her is a bliss, not a shame.

You're willing to entrust yourself to your lover because you love him/her, because you trust him/her. But make sure he/she loves and trusts you too. If you're willing to give, be happy that your lover is willing to take... Intimacy is all about love, love is not about intimacy.. But love him/her before you get close to him/her... That is moral, moral has nothing to do with marriage... It's all about true love